I call BS on New Year’s resolutions. Why? Many people think that they can change their mindset or their habits ONLY when the new year begins. These people think that just because it’s January 1st, they are a brand new person. WRONG. I am sorry, but you are still the same. You don’t go through a journey of growth and a full mindset shift by the time the clock strikes midnight.
So many people think that change can come to them immediately, especially when it comes to changing physical appearance. More times than not, goals that are set are unrealistic and by the time March rolls around there’s nothing but disappointment, resulting in giving up on the goal.
In order for you to change, you have to learn that change will always be gradual and it requires long-term dedication. If you have a very large goal, break it down into smaller, more achievable goals with a specific deadline. These smaller goals will help you achieve your overall goal. Another important key to sticking to your goal(s) is to write down your goals and hang them in a place where you will see them everyday. I personally put sticky notes on my mirror.
Change doesn’t happen overnight and doesn’t always happen in a few months either. It takes time and we are all on our own little path. Trust the process and don’t give up. Your growth will occur and your goals will be met as long as you keep working on them consistently and not give up.